Wednesday, October 8, 2008

ROLE REVERSAL

It was a typical Indian wedding ,with all the Vedic chants and other hordes of such rituals.At last,came the time when the bride had to bid farewell to her parents and kin to enter another household. Its usual for the bride to cry on such occassions.So began the "Great Crying Competition". The bride,her mother,her sisters and almost all women present in the vicinity.Just imagine 50 or more women crying.. The men grew quite emotional too.Some oldies joined the troupe too.The hullaboo reached its peak. Just then,the groom,who was supposed to leave gallantly,asked for a kerchief.Maybe to wipe sweat,someone suggested. But all of a sudden,the "bechara"(meaning poor) groom started crying like babies,err the bride.Before you think of anything else,let me tell you,
he became too emotional and so....
Well,the bride stopped crying after that and there was very little "rona-dhona" after that. So while the bride was leaving her parents' home,she was almost smiling.After she left,all the guests present there had a hearty laugh.
Don't ask me what did the "Dulha" do...
P.S:Its a real incident that happened in my family in 1980s.Since then,it has become a family joke.
Keep smiling !

16 comments:

  1. tum dulhan ka relation ho ya us bechaare dulhe ka?? ;)

    mazaa aaya yaar...pata nahin hasna kaise rok diya maine ki is comment ko likhoon...

    gr8 anwesa...!! :)

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  2. dulhan ki!! the dulhan is almost 50 now...

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  3. bechara,rone ki practice shuru kar di thi usne..lolz..

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  4. hmmm, I saw wedding and went to reading....nice blog

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  5. oh and thanks for the love sweets

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  6. oye not fair, tell us what dulha did :O was he imitating the bride :P :P

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  7. hahaha....i second with div....u should tell us wat he did :)..:P.

    urs..hemu..

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  8. ha ha tat was sumthing reely funny re

    haha u must have njoyed coz ur were frm theladki's side. ha ha

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  9. hey she is 50 now gr8 then did u attend the marriage ?

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  10. ok so the groom was a worse cry-baby than Keshi? lol!

    Keshi.

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  11. @lukkydivz,
    no,d dulha got too emo..but he was ashamed of crying (till 2de).

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  12. @hemu,
    he dint do ne thing..just an embarrasing situation 4 him..

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  13. @priya joyce,
    no sweetie..the bride happens 2 b a cousin of my mom. my mom was in school den.it passed on 2 me as a family joke.

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  14. @keshi,
    lol..he was a cry-baby..i dont kno if he so emo even now..

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